I think Jays is one of the best stores ive seen. At least the quality of livestock is the best. Last time I was there, maybe 6 months or so ago, a large section of their tanks were down. Not sure why. If it were closer than 45 minutes away Id go more frequently. Great place.
I wish I had your self control. I drive an hour to an hour and a half each way to shops at least once or twice a week. All the great LFS with good salt water selections are in MA or NH with a couple exceptions.