I have been tossing around surge device ideas for as long as I can remember. I don't plan on making one due to space constraints but have an idea for a relatively quite and bubble free design. Bubbles are definitely the challenge . Anyway - the downside is cost.
Idea: Have a storage device for the surge reservoir. Obviously dependent on space and size of tank. For a 125 gallon tank I might suggest 2-4 gallon, but haven't done any tests. A 5 gallon bucket would work, or a small acrylic tank.
I think the trick is to have as large a diameter discharge as practical to add a the reservoir quickly, thus making the surge or wave. I suggest 1.5" at minimum prefferably 2".
The reservoir must be elevated above the tank for gravity flow. Use an automated ball valve on the discharge pipe below the reservoir as close to the tank water level as possible. These are available 110v AC or a 12v DC. When the valve is opened you would dump 2-4 gallons in probably about 5-10 seconds (just guessing, haven't done the calcs, but would be easy to figure out). There would be no bubbles unlike a siphon system.
2 options for triggering the system. Either use a 1/2" or such tubing split from your return tank to fill the reservoir - effectively taking a few minutes to fill. A pair electronic float switches could then trigger the valve (DC valve well suited for this configuration). Or use a digital timer that would take some experimentation to get the timing right. (Either AC or DC could work here but AC may require less eelctrical engineering knowledge)
Down side is this - reliable actuated ball valve of 1.5 - 2" diameter is probably in the $300 range.
I think with some time and effort this could be an surge device and quiet and reliable, but cost is significant and will take some time to perfect.
Just my $0.02.