From what I have read, been told, a 1" pipe can handle a max. volume of 600 Gal. per hour. I have been told that a 3/4" return is just right for a 1" drain. I guess you always have your return slightly smaller than your drain. The drain is gravity and needs more unrestricted space. The return being under pressure can go through a smaller area.
So on a 75 gal. you would turn over the tank a max. of 8 times per hour with a 1" drain, so long as your return is pumping that amount back in.
It would seem an 1 1/2" drain, and 1" return would allow for more "play", for your 75 gal.
I am sure others with much more experience can offer more help and info.