>In the end I'm just a down and dirty type, you can draw pictures and bang on a calculator all day but in the end you just never know until you go for it.<
Yup! IMO, the biggest problem with all the calculations is knowing how well the heat can move away from the area of the ground you heat, and that in the end really takes some experiments.
>I wonder if anyone is taking advantage of the cold water from their well that is used to make rodi.<
Yup! Actually I was thinking about this again today. I had originally planned running a line of the water through my sump Before it went into the RO/DI system, but that would mean it would be under high pressure, and if it needed to be a long length of line I'd be nervous about a fitting leaking and putting tap water into my tank. Then I realized I'll get almost the same cooling effect with the water on the way out of the RO/DI system, I'll just need to run both the 'clean' and 'dirty' water though the sump. This way it will not be under much pressure.
To give you an idea how much cooling effect this will give you:
I have a 50 GPD RO/DI system, which probably uses about 200 GPD total while running. If you assume water (this time of the year anyhow) is coming in at 55 F (I don't know if that's accurate), and is warming to 78 before it leaves a loop of tubing in your sump, then you are removing about 1600 BTU/hr from your system, which is equivalent to a small chiller, and a little more than the calculations on my loop suggest I'm removing with my loop.