>why parallel why not series to ensure the liquid is actually chilled to 54 degrees ? <
Good question. The reason I run most things parallel is due to the pressure drop. It will be a lot more if run in series. If the tubing you are using is large enough, then it may not matter. Remember, you are looking for the maximum transfer of heat, not necessarily will that happen with the temp of the cooling water dropping to the lowest temperature (if flowrate slows). Remember, the heat transfer rate is proportional to the temperature difference. In this case if water is entering the loop at 78 and the ground is at 54 the driving force is 24F, at least at the start of the loop. If the water in the loop has cooled to 56, then at that point in the loop the driving force is only 2F.
Of course when the water enters the loop in your sump if it is very cool that will enhance the rate of transfer in your sump. The thing is that the heat removal from your sump always has to equal that put into the ground. It's easy after the fact to increase the heat transfer rate in your sump (add more length of 1/4" tubing, increase water flow around the tubing, etc.), but once you buried your tubing in the ground, you cannot mess with it anymore.
>still curious to the exchanger inside the sump though. how much as you each figuring is enough?<
I currently have 4 lengths of 25 ft 1/4" tubing, all running in parallel. Thus far I've made no effort to increase the turbulence of the water in the sump running around the outside of the loop.
>In that RC thread I linked to above, one of the guys suggested this
http://www.repairclinic.com/0081.asp?RccPartID=12857 as the tanks side exchanger, I think it's worth some consideration.<
Looks okay, but will it last? If we got a hold of a few lengths of this we could probably do some tests on how efficient it is for heat transfer compared to the 1/4" plastic tubing. These tests are not hard to do.
FWIW, I have another idea that might help us out with these problems. I'll 'disclose' it later today!