The sand you want...and I know this is going to sound wrong...is the bag that says "not for aquaium use" There a hundreds of huge threads about this on RC which you could read if you wanted but the reason they put that warning is not because the sand has silica in it, but because the equipment used touched silica material and then processed that sand, so there is a chance trace amounts of silica could be present (Quality control of sand just isn't what it used to be...) so to protect themselves the company put the warning on the bag...
I would buy a bunch if I was you...where is the HD at, I need to pick some up and most of the CT people have been asking who has it in stock...
Thanks
Jason