The reason your nitrates only came down slightly with a water change is because tapwater contains nitrates, among many other undesirable chemicals for reefing. So in other words, you're basically trying to dilute nitrates with nitrates. It would be like trying to reduce your salinity by diluting with saltwater. You'd never get your nitrates down below the level in the tapwater, which is still far too high for reefing.
I think the best investment possible would be an RO/DI unit.
If you can't afford one right now, many LFS sell either RO/DI water or 1.025 saltwater made from RO/DI water. I recommend Skiptons Pet Center if you're in Boston, MA. The cost per gallon is farily reasonable, and they also sell 5gal jugs to carry it in.
For a 46 Bow, I would recommend doing a 40gal water change with stabilized RO/DI saltwater immediately because your tank is established. This shouyld bring your nitrates way down. You may follow with a 40gal water change 2wk later, but do not be running UV during these two weeks.
Matt